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Announcing EPIC Carteret Books First Publication A Spork in the Road

By Melissa Kelley

Carteret Community — 5 Min Read

Announcing EPIC Carteret Books First Publication A Spork in the Road

By Melissa Kelley

Emily Carter’s A Spork in the Road arrives in April, and I can’t wait for you to take in this wonderful collection of essays. I felt like a better person for having read it, and you will, too.

This book goes down like Southern comfort food, warm and cozy and filling. But even for someone like me who has wandered into this land known as “The South” after being raised elsewhere, Emily’s welcoming prose crosses those imaginary boundaries between the regions of this vast country to touch on subjects to which everyone can relate. To read Emily’s book is to get to know places you’ve never been and to be kin with Emily within the pages.

It’s not just that Emily writes about subjects we’ve all read about: life, death, family, friendship, the human condition. It’s that she writes about them in a way that weaves together everyday sights and sounds with the personal and builds a relatable experience to enlighten you with a higher revelation.

You are Emily as you read her essays. Her perspective is North Carolina barbecue with a side of tater tots; it’s biscuits and gravy alongside her Smokin’ Hot Love Biscuit.

She sees through the stealing of a hat to what it means to be the second youngest sibling. She takes in everyone from a flight attendant tapped out on tourists to a psychic in a trailer to a kind soul named Pearl, working the Walmart check out, and picks up what each is sending into the world, turning it with her carefully shaped sentences into a message for you, the reader, to consider.

Until Friday, I never really thought about how one soul could offer this type of underpinning to the masses, (especially among the people of Walmart) through just being a good human, reinforcing the adage that it’s far better to see a sermon than hear one. In a world where one can be most anyone and act most any way, let me be more like Pastor Pearl.

Emily confronts the wondrous and the bilious in the world around her and the sometimes sinuous rainbows of hope between people, whether they are sharing the grief of losing a pet or stinging from the caustic scraping of an angry retort to a joke that landed askew.

I stood there in line thinking about how we carry our torches of what we believe and prefer. How easily our hackles can become twisted. (I convicted myself of suffering from this ailment too.) There’s an opportunity at every moment to contribute to or drain this big ole world.

In this mission, Emily has succeeded in contributing to the world. She has made it personal, she has spoken from her heart, and her essays will touch yours in ways you wouldn’t imagine possible.

What the reverend failed to mention was that tragedy is part of life, not all of it. Life is hard, and sometimes it hurts like hell, but there’s also a sunny side.

What comes through is a deep appreciation for the world around her, the people that she loves and love her back, and for having traveled a path in life that meandered through many experiences, both good and bad. She recognizes that the sweet tea tastes better for having nothing but water from a garden hose prior.

Forrest Gump said, “Life is like a box of chocolates.” I like that. Personally, I think of life as a field of wildflowers, unique and untamed. Weeds, weather, and seasons are part of the experience. And then there are days, often spontaneous and imperfect, when we are blind-sided by the magic of our own happiness. Focus on those.

We learn alongside Emily how to treat ourselves and others better, how to navigate all those tough things that we face on the regular.

I walked away from that which would never be better and now hold tight that which is most dear. There’s a song in my heart and I’m going to belt that sucker out.

You should get Emily’s book, listen to her whisper wisdom and sing out affirmations. You’ll better understand that we are all human together and know that you go forth with another friend by your side with the words she gives you.

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